Glenn Close And Michael Douglas

November 18, 2010 | Author Cindy

The breakdown of relationships and why they fail

All females need sexual tension from a prospective or existing
partner to consider having or continuing to have, a physical
relationship with them. Lose this from the start and you will
become mayor of the friend zone.

Definition of sexual tension – Cocky and funny. A loud mouth,
walking the thin line of winding her up without overly offending
her. Posing as a challenge and not doing everything she says
without a bit of give and take.

No sexual tension = a dead relationship.

There are 4 general types of relationship.

THE FRIEND ZONE RELATIONSHIP

Familiarity without sexual tension. (Usually the male not
opening his mouth to challenge a girl he REALLY fancies.) This
leads to complacency in that the female becomes numb to the
presence of the male (because he doesn’t stimulate her
emotionally through lack of communication) and associates him as
a social partner only. This leads to, the friend zone. The male
is permanently seen as a non sexual friend only. Once a female
has made up her mind that you are a friend and she says the F
word. It is the kiss of death for any attraction you have for
her. You will never have a physical relationship with her from
this point onward and will spend the rest of your time with her,
hearing how she got off with this great guy at the weekend. All
the while you’re dying inside. When you eventually tell her how
you truly feel and she rejects you. She will sit and wonder why
you are not answering the phone any more as you were a great
listener to her problems.

PURLEY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION

Purely physical attraction. After a while a lack of sexual
variety leads to complacency in both parties. Boredom / lack of
sexual tension makes both parties become fed up with each other
quickly. This leads to a breakup of the relationship and both
parties go their separate ways. This type of relationship can be
prolonged if both parties are willing to explore their sexual
fantasies and keep variety in the bedroom. The long term
feasibility of such a relationship is still in question.

PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & SEXUAL TENSION

Physical attraction + sexual tension equals love at first site.
Female tries to change male to her ideal image of a man. The
male resists, lack of conformity equals continued sexual tension
which equals a long lasting relationship viewed as love in a
love hate relationship.

PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & SEXUAL TENSION VERSION 2

Physical attraction + sexual tension equals love at first site.
Female tries to change male to her ideal image of a man. The
male conforms and no longer poses a challenge. Female gets bored
as there’s no sexual tension any more. Relationship starts to
slip. Male thinks everything is ok as he is doing everything she
wants but in reality, she has lost all interest in him. It is at
this point that she will either stay with him in a purely
partnership arrangement or leave him as soon as a better male
comes along that stimulates her emotionally.

THE OVER POSSESSIVE PARTNER

The above scenarios do not take into account over possessive
partners that bully or smother their partners to the point that
they leave or attack them. This is known in some circles as ‘a
bunny boiler’. So named after the film fatal attraction where an
obsessed Glenn Close cooks the family’s pet rabbit in a revenge
attack for Michael Douglas spurning her advances after a brief
sexual relationship.

Usually over possessiveness stems from the insecurities or lack
of trust in one partner. (They may have been hurt in the past
and are determined to not let it happen again, to the point
where it becomes an obsession.) Or they’re a total psycho, run
for it!

Relationship number 4 is the most common. In general you will
see it while at the shopping center. The husband pushes the
trolley and every time the wife speaks, it’s either yes dear or
no dear. The husband has conformed to do what the female
requires in order to have a quiet life. The female thinks she is
superior, in control and has mastered the art of man handling.

In reality she is destroying the mans animal attraction to her.
She is slowly numbing him into an affair with someone else.
Little does she know it but as he no longer poses a challenge to
her, she is slowly becoming numb to him. As his animal instinct
is tamed and he finds her attractive less and less, they will
suddenly, one day, find themselves in a loveless marriage.

They will at this point be co-existing in a purely partnership
based relationship for the sake of survival or because of
children. This has lead to relationships breaking up after 30
years of marriage and both partners wonder why their marriage is
so lifeless.

It has been described as ‘the spark fizzling out’. In reality it
is the lack of sexual tension or sexual variety. Remember, a
female thinks with her emotions and a man thinks with
his…..err….physical attraction mechanism.

If a male no longer stimulates her emotionally, she will seek it
elsewhere. Equally if a female is no longer sexually attractive
to a man, he too will look elsewhere.

Don’t get me wrong ladies, some things can’t be reversed, like
aging and the passage of time, but there are ways to grow old
and still be sexy to a male partner. A boring sex life is a
recipe for disaster and being sexy is more than a lack of
wrinkles. If in doubt, it’s time to start experimenting in the
bedroom to see what pushes his and your buttons. Explore each
others sexual fantasies and do things you only dream about at
night while your partner is asleep. You’ll be surprised how
quickly your relationship bounces back as a result.

If you have any sense you will heed my warning weather you are
male or female, married or just starting a relationship. Try to
keep the sexual tension alive between the two of you. If not,
you will be on the next train to dumpsville wondering why he or
she slept with someone else.

About the Author

Jack Crow is a freelance writer and part time webmaster. When
he’s not building web sites he’s writing about relationship
problems and checking out new dating sites that appear on the
net. To like to read some of his other articles on men and
women, visit his site at http://www.sexy-american-singles.com

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